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EGO is creates a problem

Photo by Jan Prokes from Pexels Hi Readers In this blog, I am going to share the my thought about ego. I doing same mistake in  my life during past time. After that, I am slowly reducing ego and it's automatically reflect in my life. So, this blog mainly for young generation or early or late 20's.  Think before speak: The highest and important quality need to be change by today young is ,"They're react immediately without thinking about effort". When we say something, they quickly get resented and upset. For example, Somewhere in a friendship, when they started feel bad about situation. Then immediately they say, "I will not speak to you or that friend" Or  "I will not speak to that girl or that group".  Same as, I have seen in my school also, like a girl or boy would have been friends with others for few days or hours, after that, he sees them as an enemy for the rest of years. Mostly they have spend very little time with each other or they ha

Story about Communication Problems.....

Photo by Adrien Olichon from Pexels Hi reader, In this blog, I am going to tell you a story which I liked very much and it will add value to your life. Story about communication and gossip. Most of us have problem with communication to other like me. I like doing work, but I can't do proper communication with other or express it. It's story about the domino effect of rumors and gossip.  Story: Let us assume, there was a village with only two streets. One of them was named as South and the other North. They were separated by tall buildings that had no windows at back except at the back of the street. It is like apartment without balcony and windows. Most of people in the city mostly walked only on their own street where they lived and were rarely going to the other one. But one day, someone went across the street. The people living on the other side noticed there were tears in their eyes. They didn't know that this person's act would make them big reaction li

Why can't I stay Motivated always?

 Photo by Karolina Grabowska from Pexels Hi Readers In this blog, I am going to share the my thought about stay motivated always. I doing same mistake for my life in my past. After few event, I feel it's ok to feel de-motivated or loser or useless. We can't stay motivated or productivity thing or inspiring other. It's okay to do what we need to do, even it useless thing or it wasting our time or attending the function which you hate most.  Motivated always is good or bad? Many of us claims that their motivation is not same in our life or even in single entire day. It changing continuous for me, like "In morning, I feel good", after some, "I feel upset", after some time, "I feel hungry", After some time, "I feel like useless". Same as one day, we feel good, and the next day as demotivated. After ten days, we feel good after that don't work with the same force or same fire to do the normal things. For example, when I start studying,

My biggest Mistake

   Photo by Viktoria Godaddy from Pexels Hi reader,  In this blog, I am going to accept my biggest and first mistake in my life.  My collage experience: When I was in college days, as students I have no idea about what we doing and why we want to do that. But after my school days, now I have more concentrate in studies, and I have a dream to complete my college life without disappointing my mother. So I need to move or travel to another city which big compare to my town. In that city, I stayed in college hostel. In my room, there is one student who is my classmate. We become good friends as day goes on. One day, he says that " I have a big opportunity for you. That opportunity will change your life completely". That it, after that he say "If you need to know about that, then be ready at tomorrow morning".  Next morning, when I saw him, he was completed different now. Because of his dress style which is clean and ironed properly. Even I never saw him wear this type d

How to handle TOXIC People?

  Photo by Fernando Cortés from Pexels Hi Readers In this blog, I am going to share the best way to avoid the problem & toxic people in our life, I know most of us will not accept this article, but i can say "This is working for me, so I following it and say it". Everyone has there own way to move the life forward.  Signs of Toxic people: If you need know about toxic people and signs, then here is few points about them, 1. They make you feel bad about who you are.  2. They will make you feel guilty, if they are sad. 3. They always blame you, if you aren't there for them.  This are few points about toxic people character and we need to stay away from such people. How to handle toxic people?  First, there are many ways to handle toxic people in our life.  1. When we leave them unnoticed, they destroy themself, it's one way.  2. Secondly, if they are in an important relationship with us.  For example, imagine your wife is toxic sometime its happen. Some of my friends

Big Secret of Leadership

Photo by Daria Shevtsova from Pexels When I don't want to do one thing and I don't like doing it, but when they ask me to do it. Then if I do it, then that is called flexible. If you refuse to do it, What is the meaning of it? Simple, you are not flexible. If you are not flexible, then you don't have the eligibility to be a leader. Just take this message. It's is strong message to all of us. If I am allowed to work only till 7 pm, and then I can't work after it, and I feel tired, so I can't do. Here just forget about the home, I am not talking about the home. At work, after 7 pm, you can work till 7: 30 pm and improve the quality. Then you are a leader.  I am not saying you need to work daily extra hours, but work extra when it required. remember, you are not doing for other, you are doing for yourselves. Here, " Flexibility and Domination are both the same". Again I saying "Domination and being flexible are thee same. Yes both are sam